The Connection Challenge with Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sometimes it feels like life is just happening to you.

And when your plates are overflowing with work, kids, or the challenges of just plain adulting, it’s no wonder that things sometimes fall through the cracks.

But you’re realizing that your RELATIONSHIP is one of the things falling through the cracks.

And that can feel pretty awful… and lonely.

Because when life feels hectic and overwhelming, your partner is exactly who you need in your corner, supporting and loving you through it all. Keeping you centered. Telling those corny jokes that make you laugh. And holding your hand as you face the ups and the downs together.

But that place seems so far off now… Lately, your conversations are more mechanical than emotional. And your attention is scattered across so many things that you’ve forgotten to focus on EACH OTHER.

So, how do you get back to prioritizing each other when your lives are already overbooked with responsibilities and obligations?

Every day for 30 days you’ll get an email from us every day with two challenge options:

The Communication Activity poses a thought-provoking question or discussion prompt that ranges from flirty and fun to deep and meaningful. No more generic exchanges about work and weather! Remember when you’d spend hours talking and laughing about everything under the sun? These conversations offer a roadmap to get you back to that feeling.
The Action Activity is a short, playful activity you and your partner complete together. These fun and simple tasks will bring you closer and shake up your usual routine of mindless TV watching as “quality time.”

This is a Choose Your Own Adventure challenge — pick whichever option you’re most excited about. Or do both!

Don’t worry, these aren’t epic tasks that will take hours to tackle. Designed with busy lifestyles in mind, they’re quick but effective at opening the door to talking, sharing, and connecting again. Each activity takes 5 to 10 minutes—MAX.

And they’ll remind you why the two of you are so GOOD together!

You complete the activities in the privacy of your own home. Make it a part of your morning routine and connect over coffee, or grab a few extra minutes of quality time after the kids go to bed. You’re in control!

Investing those small nuggets of time can return magical dividends and make all the difference in bringing the intimacy back to your relationship. And before you know it, you’ll both be looking forward to your challenge time together each day!

30 days of intimacy-enhancing email activities delivered straight to your inbox. You get 2 activities per day: a Communication Activity and an Action Activity. You can do one or do both… it’s your choice!

A downloadable journal and workbook — Keep it as a memento from this special time you spent nurturing and growing your relationship.

Go at your own pace — You get lifetime access to the challenge, so don’t stress if you miss a day or two. You can pause the emails if you need a break. Or you can simply save the unread emails and open one whenever you and your partner are ready for the next day. We know life happens, but it’s never too late to reconnect!

Risk-free guarantee — Give The Connection Challenge a try for 5 days. If you decide it’s not for you, just send us an email and we’ll give you a full refund. There’s no risk, so why not take the challenge for a spin?!

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Because right now is the BEST time to reestablish that connection with your partner!

It’s SO easy to get swept up in the busyness of your day-to-day. Before you know it, it's been six months or a year and you’re feeling more disconnected than ever.

So if not now, then when?

Now's the time to be proactive and deepen your connection before a year flies by in front of your very eyes. You deserve to feel like a true team navigating your lives together — rediscover love, intimacy, and true partnership!

What if now is not a great time?
No problem!

There's a link to pause the challenge right in your confirmation email, so you can start it up whenever you're ready. You have lifetime access to the challenge, so there's no rush. (By the way, if something comes up in the middle of the challenge, you can also pause it!)
We’re already so busy, what if we don’t have time?
The Connection Challenge was made ESPECIALLY for busy couples. Each challenge takes 5 to 10 minutes ⏱️, max!

You also don’t need to do a challenge every day. You’ll have the emails forever, so you can keep them unread and open one at a time when you’re ready.
Can you give an example of a challenge?
Half of the fun of the challenge is not knowing what you're going to be doing that day, so we don't give away examples because we don't want to ruin the surprise!

Instead, we offer a five-day money-back guarantee. You can try the challenge for five whole days to make sure you love it. If you're not having fun, we'll refund you every penny.
How much does it cost?
$139! Plus you can test it out for the first 5 days risk-free. If you decide it’s not for you, just send us an email. You’ve got nothing to lose… and so much to gain by teaming up together!
Is this a sex challenge?
Nope, not a sex challenge! You do every single activity with your clothes on (unless you don’t want to).

If you’ve been wanting to strengthen your relationship but have been feeling shy about our more explicit offers, this is a great first step!

Talking about sex in an easygoing way is a very small part of the challenge, but it’s mostly about having conversations that bring you closer together. (Fair warning: you may find yourself wanting to have more physical intimacy as a side effect of feeling super connected!)
Who is the challenge for?
The Connection Challenge is inclusive, and designed to reignite a spark for couples of all genders and orientations.

It works for long-distance couples, too! Schedule a regular FaceTime date and use the challenge to bond when you can’t be together physically. If you’re a military couple or juggling different time zones, you can each keep a journal and review the challenges when you’re able to connect.