Don’t miss your FINAL chance to join Intimate or Nasty...

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Reignite the spark with our best-selling, choose your own adventure challenges!

This Valentine’s Day, why not spend a whole month celebrating each other instead of just one day?!

Intimate or Nasty takes our two most-loved 30-day challenges — The Connection Challenge and The Sex Challenge — and lets you choose the one that will increase intimacy right now. (Or get BOTH if you want to go all in!)

Are you missing the days when you and your partner had long, deep conversations? Wishing you had more to talk about besides work and the weather? Want to find more joy and laughter together (not in front of the TV)?

This is our emotional intimacy challenge that focuses on strengthening your relationship outside the bedroom.


Do you want to spice things up in the bedroom? Bring a sense of playfulness and adventure into your relationship by throwing your “routine” out the window? Excitedly leave the party/dinner/movie early because you can’t wait to get home and tear each other’s clothes off? (Or just cancel plans and stay in bed instead!)

This is our physical intimacy challenge that will have you and your partner feeling like teenagers again.

Get one Challenge for $139 or both for just $199.

(Try it risk-free through February 18th!)

If you’re like most couples, you want to feel closer and more connected to each other. But you don’t exactly know how to make that happen…

You know you should be having more exciting date nights and trying new things in bed. But constantly having to invent new ways to spice up your relationship takes a lot of brain power. (Just coming up with what to have for dinner every night is exhausting!)

We’ve got your back! We’ll give you a bunch of creative ways to shake things up. We’ve got tons of ideas for how you can put the spark back into your relationship. (You’re on your own for dinner though!)

That’s why we created our Intimate or Nasty Valentine's Day Event. So you and your partner can try new things, strengthen your bond, and have more fun inside and outside the bedroom!

30 days of emails with two activity options per day Connection Challenge takers will get to choose between a Communication and an Action Activity. The Sex Challenge gives you the option of a Sensual and a Sexual Activity.

Simple, totally doable challenges that only take between 5-20 minutes to complete, don’t require any special props or additional purchases, and gently nudge you out of your comfort zone.

Live round starting February 14th — you’re not alone, you’ll be taking the challenge at the same time as thousands of other couples. (But anonymously!)

The ability to pause at any time — don’t worry about falling behind or getting too busy. You can go at your own pace, and if you need a break it’s as easy as clicking a button!

The option to take both challenges for an extra special discount! Want to go all in and get both Intimate and Nasty? (We like your style!) Create your own romance bootcamp by taking both challenges.

Lifetime access to the challenge — take it again whenever you need a relationship reboot. 

Try it risk-free for 5 days! No questions asked refund policy if you decide the challenge isn't for you by February 18th (unless you’ve paused the challenge — if you’ve paused, the refund request must be sent before receiving your 6th day of the challenge).

Get one Challenge for $139 or both for just $199.

(Try it risk-free through February 18th!)

Starting February 14th, you'll get an email from us every day for 30 days with two activity options. Your activity options will be different depending on if you select Intimate (The Connection Challenge) or Nasty (The Sex Challenge).

Either way, you can look forward to opening up your email every day to see what’s waiting for you!
If you go Intimate and sign up for
The Connection Challenge you'll get:

A Communication Activity — a thought-provoking question or discussion prompt that ranges from flirty and fun to deep and meaningful.

An Action Activity — a short, playful activity you and your partner complete together.

The Connection Challenge will help you and your partner fall in love all over again.

There’s no sex involved. (But don’t be surprised if all of a sudden you start having more of it!)

Most of the challenges can be completed in 10 minutes or less, and it even works for long-distance couples too.
And if you want to get Nasty,
The Sex Challenge gives you:

A Sensual Activity — an activity that’s based around communication, touch, or foreplay (because sometimes the hottest moments happen with your clothes on!).

A Sexual Activity — a spicy, R-rated assignment. (But it’s not just intercourse!)

The Sex Challenge makes it easy to break out of a rut, try new techniques you never would have thought of on your own, and boost your confidence inside and outside the bedroom.

Get Intimate OR Nasty for just $139.

Or get both Intimate AND Nasty for the special price of $199!

It’s the Valentine’s Day gift that keeps on giving! (And costs way less than a fancy dinner at a crowded restaurant.)
Forget about the chocolate and flowers —
this challenge offers surprise, excitement, and a fun,
fresh way to connect with your partner!

(Try it risk-free through February 18th!)

  • Can you give an example of a challenge?
    Half of the fun of the challenge is not knowing what you're going to be doing that day, so we don't give away examples because we don't want to ruin the surprise! Instead, what we do is offer a five day money-back guarantee. You can try the challenge for five whole days and make sure you love it. If you're not having fun, we'll refund you every penny.
  • If I buy both, do we have to do both challenges at the same time?
    No, you don't! If you have the time and energy to do both at the same time, knock yourselves out! But we want the challenge to feel really doable (pun fully intended), so for most couples our recommendation is to do one challenge at a time.

    There's a link in your confirmation email to pause either challenge at any time. If you're unsure which one to start with, our recommendation is the Connection Challenge, but you can't go wrong either way!
  • Can we start the challenge(s) at a later time?
    Yes! We'll be sending your first challenge email(s) on Valentine's Day, but you don't need to start right away. There's a link to pause the challenge right in your confirmation email. You can pause for now, then start whenever you're ready. You have lifetime access to the challenge, so there's no rush.

    Keep in mind, though, that we stop accepting entry into the challenges just before Valentine's Day, so if you want to get in on this pricing (which will go up next time!), sign up now.
  • If I enter my partner’s email address, when will they get emailed about it?
    Your partner won’t receive ANY emails until your Challenge starts on February 14th!
  • Is this for LGBTQ+ couples, too?
    Absolutely. The challenges are specifically designed to be gender-neutral.
  • Do we have to have sex every day?
    No. The Connection Challenge doesn’t involve sex at all. The Sex Challenge has both sensual and sexual activities to choose from, but it’s not just intercourse.
  • Is there a refund policy?
    We have a no questions asked refund policy if you decide the challenge isn't for you by February 18th (unless you’ve paused the challenge — if you’ve paused, the refund request must be sent before receiving your 6th day of the challenge).

Thousands of couples have taken these challenges and here’s what they have to say…

You deserve a relationship full of playfulness, pleasure, and passion.

Go Intimate with The Connection Challenge and double down on connection so you and your partner become an unstoppable team.


Get Nasty with The Sex Challenge and amp up your sex life, becoming one of those “can’t get enough of each other” couples.


Go all in, get both Intimate AND Nasty and reinvigorate your entire relationship.

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** Make sure to enter your partner's email above if you'd like them to receive the emails too! They won't receive any emails until the challenge starts on February 14th.

Choose your adventure:

  • Preferred option
    Connection Challenge$139.00
  • Preferred option
    Sex Challenge$139.00
  • Preferred option
    Both Challenges (Connection AND Sex Challenges)$199.00

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A Year Of Creative Dates

Keep the fun going for just $19!
- Let us take the "figuring out what to do" our of your date nights!
- Choose between over 50 date ideas
- Perfect for parents, busy couples, and long-distance relationships
- Spend quality time together and have fun exploring new ideas together
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