Don’t miss your FINAL chance to join Intimate or Nasty...
This Valentine’s Day, why not spend a whole month celebrating each other instead of just one day?!
Intimate or Nasty takes our two most-loved 30-day challenges — The Connection Challenge and The Sex Challenge — and lets you choose the one that will increase intimacy right now. (Or get BOTH if you want to go all in!)
Are you missing the days when you and your partner had long, deep conversations? Wishing you had more to talk about besides work and the weather? Want to find more joy and laughter together (not in front of the TV)?

This is our emotional intimacy challenge that focuses on strengthening your relationship outside the bedroom.
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Get one Challenge for $139 or both for just $199.


(Try it risk-free through February 18th!)



30 days of emails with two activity options per day — Connection Challenge takers will get to choose between a Communication and an Action Activity. The Sex Challenge gives you the option of a Sensual and a Sexual Activity.
Simple, totally doable challenges that only take between 5-20 minutes to complete, don’t require any special props or additional purchases, and gently nudge you out of your comfort zone.
Live round starting February 14th — you’re not alone, you’ll be taking the challenge at the same time as thousands of other couples. (But anonymously!)
The ability to pause at any time — don’t worry about falling behind or getting too busy. You can go at your own pace, and if you need a break it’s as easy as clicking a button!
The option to take both challenges for an extra special discount! Want to go all in and get both Intimate and Nasty? (We like your style!) Create your own romance bootcamp by taking both challenges.
Lifetime access to the challenge — take it again whenever you need a relationship reboot.
Try it risk-free for 5 days! No questions asked refund policy if you decide the challenge isn't for you by February 18th (unless you’ve paused the challenge — if you’ve paused, the refund request must be sent before receiving your 6th day of the challenge).
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Get one Challenge for $139 or both for just $199.


(Try it risk-free through February 18th!)





The Connection Challenge you'll get:
A Communication Activity — a thought-provoking question or discussion prompt that ranges from flirty and fun to deep and meaningful.
An Action Activity — a short, playful activity you and your partner complete together.
Enter your bullet points here..
The Sex Challenge gives you:
A Sensual Activity — an activity that’s based around communication, touch, or foreplay (because sometimes the hottest moments happen with your clothes on!).
A Sexual Activity — a spicy, R-rated assignment. (But it’s not just intercourse!)
Enter your bullet points here..
Get Intimate OR Nasty for just $139.
Or get both Intimate AND Nasty for the special price of $199!
this challenge offers surprise, excitement, and a fun,
fresh way to connect with your partner!


(Try it risk-free through February 18th!)

- Can you give an example of a challenge?Half of the fun of the challenge is not knowing what you're going to be doing that day, so we don't give away examples because we don't want to ruin the surprise! Instead, what we do is offer a five day money-back guarantee. You can try the challenge for five whole days and make sure you love it. If you're not having fun, we'll refund you every penny.
- If I buy both, do we have to do both challenges at the same time?No, you don't! If you have the time and energy to do both at the same time, knock yourselves out! But we want the challenge to feel really doable (pun fully intended), so for most couples our recommendation is to do one challenge at a time.
There's a link in your confirmation email to pause either challenge at any time. If you're unsure which one to start with, our recommendation is the Connection Challenge, but you can't go wrong either way! - Can we start the challenge(s) at a later time?Yes! We'll be sending your first challenge email(s) on Valentine's Day, but you don't need to start right away. There's a link to pause the challenge right in your confirmation email. You can pause for now, then start whenever you're ready. You have lifetime access to the challenge, so there's no rush.
Keep in mind, though, that we stop accepting entry into the challenges just before Valentine's Day, so if you want to get in on this pricing (which will go up next time!), sign up now. - If I enter my partner’s email address, when will they get emailed about it?Your partner won’t receive ANY emails until your Challenge starts on February 14th!
- Is this for LGBTQ+ couples, too?Absolutely. The challenges are specifically designed to be gender-neutral.
- Do we have to have sex every day?No. The Connection Challenge doesn’t involve sex at all. The Sex Challenge has both sensual and sexual activities to choose from, but it’s not just intercourse.
- Is there a refund policy?We have a no questions asked refund policy if you decide the challenge isn't for you by February 18th (unless you’ve paused the challenge — if you’ve paused, the refund request must be sent before receiving your 6th day of the challenge).




You deserve a relationship full of playfulness, pleasure, and passion.

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** Make sure to enter your partner's email above if you'd like them to receive the emails too! They won't receive any emails until the challenge starts on February 14th.
Choose your adventure:
- Preferred optionConnection Challenge$139.00
- Preferred optionSex Challenge$139.00
- Preferred optionBoth Challenges (Connection AND Sex Challenges)$199.00
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