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We're so excited for you to taking the initiative to keep the spark alive that we wanted to give you a SPECIAL OFFER right now on our course, MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs (AKA Rediscovering Intimacy and Sex For Parents).

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Because parents deserve playtime too.
Get the deep, exciting, distraction-free connection you’ve been missing —
with this course created specifically for busy parents.

(Get it $100 off for the next 15 minutes!)


As a parent, you have more items on your to-do list than there are minutes in the day.

All the kids’ doctor appointments, soccer games, bake sales, and piano lessons. All the household tasks — grocery shopping, loading and unloading the dishwasher, straightening up a room only to blink and have it be destroyed again, and endless loads of laundry (seriously, where does all that laundry come from??!).

It can make you feel trapped in a whirlwind of overwhelm and busyness that seems like it won’t end until the last kid leaves the house (another 15 years?!).

You’re not alone! When we polled parents, 90% of them said their relationship got harder, and 91% of them said their sex life suffered after kids.

When you hardly get a moment to yourself, you’re left feeling like a parent first, a partner a distant second, and a person dead last.

So when it comes to connection… you and your partner operate more like roommates or business partners.

99.9% of the time you spend together is with the kids, coordinating the kids’ schedules, or talking about… the kids!
Research shows the average couple with kids spends only 35 minutes per week having face-to-face conversations with each other, and even then, they’re still talking about the kids.

When you have tiny humans literally relying on you for survival, quality time together falls way down the priority list.

In those rare moments of quiet, it feels easier to just curl up with Netflix and tune out the world than it is to tune into your partner and get intimate.

You may catch yourself thinking back to all that chemistry you used to have —how much easier sex used to feel.

But now? It feels like so much work. The kids have to be fed and bathed and tucked in and sleeping soundly, you have to be showered, you have to be in a good mood, you have to feel at least remotely connected to each other… basically the stars have to be in perfect alignment.

And even then… sex still doesn’t feel the way it used to.

But what if you had a simple, packed-schedule-friendly guide for rekindling the connection and intimacy in your relationship?

That’s why we created MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs (Parent I’d like to…)!

We know you love your partner. We know you want intimacy to feel so much better and easier. So we’re here to show you how!

Prioritize yourselves, even if it’s just a few minutes at a time. When parents take time to nurture their relationship, the whole family wins.

Stop buying into frustrating beliefs like “this just is how it is when you have kids.” It’s easy to lose hope that keeping the spark alive is possible. (And society just reinforces this idea!) Now you can disrupt those beliefs and take control of how YOU want your partnership to feel.

Reignite the bond that brought you together by getting on the same page emotionally and sexually. This course offers the support you need to become a team and enjoy time together again. Because a wink here and a lingering kiss there go a long way in making life more fun.

Add quality (kid-free) time for connection into the fabric of your hectic schedule. Without having to completely rearrange your weekly whiteboard.

Maintain your connection. That perfect moment to prioritize yourselves isn’t coming. Unless you find ways to make it happen for YOU.

We know your time is precious, which is why MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs is specifically designed for busy parents.

Each lesson takes just a few minutes, and is filled with quick bites of the latest research and no-brainer activities that show you how to feel sexy as a parent!

We’re also offering you a 3-day money-back guarantee, so you can try MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs risk-free. If you decide it’s not for you within 72 hours of purchase, we’ll give you your money back — no questions asked.

It’s challenging to shift from overwhelm back to flirting, fun, and connection. Especially when you’re so used to just trying to survive ‘til bedtime.

Keeping the spark alive as parents feels hard because it is hard. If this was easy, you’d already be doing it!

But we can show you the way!

(Get it $100 off for the next 15 minutes!)

Here’s exactly what we’ll cover, together:

Acknowledging what you’re up against and find compassion for the challenges of parenting, so you can move forward from a place of mutual understanding.

Bringing the focus back to your relationship, because you’ve experienced a massive identity shift in becoming parents. Now, you need intentional ways of transitioning from parents to partners so you can keep showing up for each other.

Approaching self-care like a team with easy ways to support one another and enjoy some much-needed time to recharge. Plus, self-care is a proven libido-booster!

Honoring how sex changes through pregnancy and childbirth. Your body might feel completely foreign to you, and sex acts you used to love feel different now. Taking time to understand changes and new preferences creates space for reconnecting with your body again.

Exploring new ways to share the mental load of parenting. So you can nip resentment in the bud and eliminate arguments that start with that innocent yet infuriating comment: "Just tell me how I can help!"

Overcoming feeling “touched out” from your kids grabbing at you all day. Understand why you find yourself recoiling when your partner attempts a physical connection. And find ways to recharge and regulate your senses so you have the capacity for intimate touch again.

Building more privacy into your lives with research-backed and parent-approved tips for getting more alone time.

Modeling healthy, affectionate relationships for the kids.

Creating time for intimacy. We know it might feel impossible right now, but we have some tried-and-tested tricks up our sleeves!

In a couple days this course will cost $199…

But right now get it for only $99.

(Get it $100 off for the next 15 minutes!)


Your MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs questions — answered!

  • How does it work?
    Once you join, you’ll get instant access to the video lessons and downloadable workbook.

    The course has quick (we’re talking just a few minutes each), 100% parent-focused lessons to help you rediscover your love for each other and finally get back on the same team as a couple. And build real, meaningful ways to prioritize your partnership just as much as you prioritize your roles as parents.

    The workbook acts as a guide to help you process new discoveries together and implement everything you’ve learned in ways that feel gooood. And sustainable. For both of you.
  • How much time will it take?
    Each lesson in the course takes less than 10 minutes! You’re free to go at your own pace and hit pause whenever you need to.

    The goal of this course is to bring ease back into your relationship dynamic. We know your time is precious, so we’ve distilled our best tips for parents into quick lessons you can sneak in, even at the end of a long day.
  • Do we lose access at some point?
    Never! Buying MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs gives you lifetime access to our best resources and tips for parents. All in a concise and value-packed online course format. So you can dive in at any time without ever wondering how to get out of the inevitable romantic rut again.
  • Does the course require us to have sex?
    Nope! This course focuses on navigating and removing blockages that are limiting your relationship. So if you’re still in the tender post-partum phase, you can rest easy knowing that nothing is required of your body.
  • Do you offer refunds?
    We are offering a 3-day money-back guarantee, so you can try MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs risk-free! If you decide that the program is not for you within those 72 hours, we’ll give you your money back — no questions asked.
  • Is it inclusive?
    Yes! This course is for parents of all genders and orientations.
  • But, you guys don’t have kids… right?
    Vanessa here to answer! Xander and I aren’t parents ourselves. So why did we make a course for parents? Because I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master’s degree in psychology. A huge part of my educational and clinical training was with kids and families. I’ve worked with thousands of families, and have had the opportunity to test and refine all of my strategies.

    We were also excited to create this course because part of our mission is to support families and to stop the generational shame cycle around sex.

    Think of me like a pediatrician without kids, a pharmacist who hasn’t taken the medication you’ve been prescribed, or a sports psychologist who isn’t a professional athlete.

    If you’re the kind of person who wants the professionals that you work with to have had the same direct experience you have, that’s your right, and we respect that! This just won’t be the right course for you.

You can deepen your bond, even as the school year screeches to an end and summer sends life spinning in a hundred new directions.


Because it’s the little moments of connection — a quick cuddle at the end of the day, holding hands at the soccer game, a sly smile over breakfast — that keep your bond strong. Your family, friends, and even the kids will take notice!


You deserve a passionate relationship and a deep, fulfilling connection, even during life’s most challenging seasons.


It’s time to get back on the same team — in the bedroom, and in life. Join MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs (AKA Rediscovering Intimacy And Sex For Parents) now for just $99.

(Get it $100 off for the next 15 minutes!)

Taking this step means you get to start an exciting new chapter… creating opportunities for true connection… discovering an intimate life that works for this phase in your relationship… Actually WANTING to have sex again, instead of feeling stuck in the “I want to want it… but I don’t” stage.

When you’re busy and overwhelmed, it’s easy to write off sex like the other pleasures you no longer have time for — as if it were a day at the spa.

But sex is SO much more than that!

Physical intimacy goes hand in hand with emotional connection. When you're in a good place sexually, everything else in life just works, and vice versa.

Life takes on a sense of ease. You feel energized instead of drained, there’s laughter instead of tension. You think, “OH! This is what relationships are supposed to feel like!”

To a lot of parents, sex just doesn’t seem that important when you have so much else on your plate. It’s easy for “parent guilt” to creep in whenever you think of doing something other than focusing 100% on your kids.

But here’s the thing… working on your intimacy will have a HUGE impact on your kids.

You already know your kids pick up on the smallest cues from you. They see everything you do. They notice moments of tension and resentment between their parents.

So modeling a confident, affectionate, loving relationship matters. It breaks the generational cycle of shame and embarrassment around sex, and sets your kids up to create healthy relationships when they become adults!

(Just take a moment to imagine how different your childhood would have been if your parents had the tools we share in this course…)

The effort you put into your intimate life isn’t “selfish” or “unnecessary.” It impacts your whole family dynamic, and your children’s future.

When you prioritize your romance and intimacy, your kids get a healthy example of love that will stay with them throughout their lifetime.

And what better gift could you give to your child than that?


MILFs, DILFs, and PILFs (AKA Rediscovering Intimacy And Sex For Parents) is only available at the special price of $99!


Don’t wait any longer. Enroll now and transform your relationship today!

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